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Tue, 04 Dec 2007 11:33:23 +0100

Who am I.
I am a 35 year old male that is fed up of what life keeps throwing up and is going to try to alter things in my favour. I will answer questions where possible and take advice when given. I am facing some huge battles in the New Year that will affect my health and status and hopefully, my financial standing too.
I will keep updating this page every week starting in January.

Q1) Why do I rush head long into things?

This is something that I have done for many years, but why? I think I have done it out of a need to be accepted and to fit in and and feel wanted too. This however has not always been helpful to my wellbeing and as you will read over the coming weeks and months is why I have so many regrets. This is why this blog is called A Life Without Regrets, not because I don't have any regrets but because I strive towards living a life without regrets, with a true life partner, someone I can lean on and they on me. Two people that can grow together so that each others need is met without the need to ask. So why hasn't this happened? why am I alone? If I am striving to be with a soul mate kind of person why does it go so wrong. The answer to this question has to be on a multi level. Firstly there are changes I need to make in my life for this to happen and secondly a health issue has to be tackled head on so that people see me and not my symptoms. I don't think people judge me on my health until I am alone and then thoughts go round and round that are not constructive. Both of these issue (and others) will be dealt with this year and I hope and pray that this time next year (2008) I am in a relationship with someone that I can be with for the rest of my life.
People often say that life is too short however, "this is it" you only get one chance, one shot and it's high time that I stopped living life like it's some kind of dress rehersal for the main event!!

Phil

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